5 things you probably didn’t know about how pØrn is made

A single person or a couple can be aroused and stimulated to engage in sexual activity using porn.

1. Lights, camera, action

What most people fail to realize is that print is a massive production. It is filmed in days. It has a screenwriter and director, just like other movies. Hours and days are spent shooting, and then it’s edited.

Even Only Fans, which has become massively popular, is still a production.

OnlyFans is an exclusive subscription for a person or two people performing sexual acts. But did you know people spend hours curating what is eventually sent out as pornography?

2. Arousal and erections are exaggerated

Most of them use drugs and other substances to maintain their erections and libido for so long. There are "rumors" of others having sex with their real partners first, so they can get aroused.

In real life, there has to be a lot of foreplay for both the man and the woman to get aroused. Women need about 30 minutes of foreplay involving kissing, sucking, massage, oral sex, etc. before they can be properly aroused for sex.

3. Squirting is unpopular

Many women do not squirt, instead expelling liquid from their vagina when their g-spot is reached. Very few women experience female ejaculation, but what porn does is create some sort of expectation that women may never meet up with. Do you know that porn stars fill their vaginas with water so they can create videos of squirting? Plus,, you don’t need to squirt to have great sex.

4. Good camera angles and some sex positions are not always realistic

pØrn is different from how real-life bodies look, move, and react because camera angles, lighting, and other techniques are used.

Sex is meant to be enjoyed not endured. Some positions are not realistic for sex to be enjoyed, especially from the women’s perspective.

They might look like they are enjoying it, but they are just acting. Plus, you don’t hurt yourself trying to recreate what cannot be done in one take.

Of course, you should be voyeuristic and try different positions but do what works for you.

5. PØrn is a performance

Because porn is a performance, when people have sex, they are performing too.

The violence, the sounds and how fast pØrn is not real. Not many people are being choked, and many women don’t make faces like that. Sometimes, you have to go fast or slow, depending on what your partner wants. She doesn’t have to moan in a certain way or make a certain face – just like a porn star.

If we remove what we learn from porn from our sexual dictionary, we might have better and even more authentic sex.